05.11.09
hurt feelings
You choose how others treat you.
Beach tip of the day: Take the time to watch the rhythm of the different shorebirds walk. Stately herons, darting sanderlings, determined willets, goofy seagulls. All will make you smile!
My feelings were hurt yesterday. And all I could think of is why? Why would someone do that if they profess to care for me? I was filled with righteous indignation for about a minute, red hot fury for 30 seconds and finally the knowing that I chose this. And that really stunk – I liked the righteous fury better…
I realized that I have allowed the poor behavior and even though I have stood up for myself several times – nothing changed at the core. And I allowed it by choosing to have a relationship with this person.
I determine how people treat me. I choose who I want in my life. And I can walk away from those who don’t honor me. Just as they can do the same thing.
And even if it is a person who is tied to you for life – family, an ex, etc. You can choose to walk away mentally and shield yourself.
I take responsibility for my hurt feelings. Sure, the action wasn’t cool or kind. But I stuck around for it.
Walk away and know that you have honored the Universe. (It will also make you happier!)
Blessed be
